Gestalt gets the "client" is good, and feel are the others who have the problem. 
These people who take the title in a couple of years on the basis of doing therapy (gestalt training is usually done on weekends) based group of theater practice, corporal expression, ect, these people can not make a serious assessment if the person seeking help has some kind of neurosis or childhood trauma, problems of lack of paternal or maternal love.
also not allowed to question what they propose, do not support a "what is this for?". Actually, when they see the patient / client has "custom" to think for themselves or topics about things, then you realize that "here is something that does not fit."
Of course, one of the things they do is ask about the relationship with "Papa and Mama" and woe to you who say you've had a happy childhood and you have confidence in them. You look like a penalty.
The main problem patient / client gestalt is that he does not realize the damage it does to his inner circle, especially if your partner has. They become self-centered in the superlative.
Soon "notices" that your partner does not love him, question the care and love they receive and see problems in other people or the person they approach their gestalt. " Actually see gaps where none exists and exaggerate everything to the limit, suggesting the person next to him is not really up to the needs of the patient / client.
The patient / client focuses on himself, his needs, suddenly demanding a change in his life, his family, in their day to day. Suddenly the couple is analyzed, judged on his behavior and his own sanity. Usually the patient / client gestalt see problems in your partner, self-esteem issues, talk about assertiveness, that you do not know yourself and therefore insist you have to do Gestalt psychotherapy to "grow as a person", because all world has to be at their new level of self-knowledge, if you do not want to delve into yourself, look at you differently. Arrive at the conclusions that your partner does not admire, the patient / client needs to be admired, you need to being by him to a level of demand that disturbs your partner. In a blog that talks about the other side of the gestalt (http://otracaradelagestalt.blogspot.com/) its author really overboard with the following words:
"- Demonstrations negative patients affected are abandoning their homes, stripped of values, ends empathy with others, selfishness, irresponsibility, cut all family interdependence and relationship to not be dependent or purchase commitments with third parties. "So says the gestalt we do not need anyone or anything in the world? If all you are worth in this life are people around us. "
" - are justified acts of the patient (without values). Receive cuddle and comfort to make them feel good, no matter what happens to others. "
is significant that arose another school of Gestalt, Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), which is considered the" trade daughter "of Gestalt, NLP is oriented to success and change and the Gestalt acceptance and inner peace. But this would be an issue to be discussed calmly.
would be really interesting that people who have lived closely the consequences of a spouse, friend or family member who is in gestalt therapy and who have felt identified with this article do know and share their experiences.
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